Wash and cut the gongura leaves and cook on the stove top till done. Add the tamarind to it and grind. So not over grind as you still want the leaves to be visible. In a kadai add the oil and pop the mustard seeds and then add urad dal, red chillies and asafoetida. When the dal is nicely browned add the ground gongura and tamarind, curry leaves, red chilli powder and salt. Keep stirring till the gongura is almost of thokku consistency and the oil separates from it.
Dry roast all the dry spice ingredients and grind into a coarse dry masala. Cook the rice a little dry. Fry the peanuts in the oil and set aside.
In a large bowl add the cooked rice, peanuts and add 3-4 tbsp of the cooked gongura. You may need to adjust the amount of gongura you use according to your taste. Add salt and 2 tbsp of the dry spice powder. Mix carefully and serve with pachadi and or chips. Serves 4.
You may have lots of gongura thokku left over. Store in fridge have it with tayir sadam.